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Originally posted by baddog
she's even hotter with a decent camera
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Hey Baddog! Nice to put a face to your name buddy best to you in 2004
Jennifer - you are obviously not only cute but nice also - i can see a lot in your eyes and your smile - you arent a shallow dingbat, you have thoughts and feelings and an entire lifetime of memories that you wish you could share with the right person ... i think you liked a young dude way too much ... when i was 22 i fucked everyone i had a chance to ... its to be expected ... there are exceptions, but usually, it takes till about 30 (observing myself and my friends) before a man can even think about monogomy, or being nice to a woman ONLY to see her happy, not out of selfish reasons ...
Unrequited love is as sure as death and taxes ... Idiots are the ones who are too afraid to take a chance so be proud that you are a brave person. I dont know this guy from a hole in the wall, nor do i know you, so maybe their is a legit excuse ... mom is a sacred thing a girl cannot understand, much like men will never understand childbirth - id tunnel through 1000 miles of shit to make sure mine didnt have a hangnail.
but again i dont know the details ... maybe legit he needed to be there for mom, maybe his way of saying goodbye ... you have to be honest with yourself about that ... then move on or give another chance. Ultimatums dont work very well with anyone in a relationship, especially at 22, an ultimatum from a girl would immediately result in most doing the exact opposite. very natural.
Remember most men are only one step above toilet trained gorillas. After life kicks us in the nuts for a few decades some men will start to decide that a good woman, the right woman, one woman, is a good idea. until then, we just want to fuck and are driven by pure selfishness. some men, most men i know, will always just want to plug their dick into any hole they can ... no matter how old they are, married, kids, doesnt matter - until and unless they are starstruck ... and one who has never felt that cannot understand it.
Dr. Phil, aka Mikey