Understandable. I know not being on your own doesn't makes you mature but it helps the cause of growing up. I have never had a helping hand I guess what I'm saying. There are people 35 that don't know how to treat women. If a woman is special you give her your all. Though for me it takes alot for me to feel that way towards a woman. I agree a real man would have done what you said and if his intentions arn't true to her he should have atleast been honest.
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Originally posted by CDSmith
And THAT... is why I said "very hard" rather than "impossible" to get maturity from a 22 yr old. There are exceptions, and I left the door open for that. However, if what you are saying is true, then you are an exceptional 23 yr old. Of course supporting yourself doesn't necessarily speak to your maturity as far as how to treat the woman in your life.
In this case, a real man would have picked up Angeleyes and taken her along to his family Christmas, in spite of his mother's attitude. A real man would have made it clear to mommy that Angel was his woman and that's that. Period. At the first sign of trouble, a real man would have left with Angel and left his mommy standing there feeling stupid for opening her mouth. A real man knows that mommy comes first as long as mommy knows how to be respectful of his choice in a girlfriend.
Cheers.
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