IMO I would stay away from these "adult" web hosts. You are much better off getting a more mainstream web host that allows adult content. You will find that they are much more proffesional and reliable.
check out
http://www.netelligent.ca , but be sure to contact
[email protected] for a hookup, tell him dave (gexus) sent you..
Ive been with them for years and dont have a single complaint, 100% uptime, amazing support.