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Originally posted by codymc12
Elli,
Thanks for chiming in. And just so no one thinks I'm living in a bell jar on this, my wife has communicated similar stories to me from when she was a teen.
And there aren't many catholic schoolgirls where we live. 
My view is still that just because the girls are looking, doesn't mean that the older guys should be providing.
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Yes, I totally agree. I think that any guy over 18 who finds a 16 year old girl to be good date-material is dating her because he isn't confident enough to date women his own age, and/or he's still stuck with a high-school mentality and is probably still living at home, living the high school life. In any case, he needs to grow up and hang around people his own age.
My point was that the girl isn't always some prey to be chased, as the question somewhat implied. The girls are often quite willing, and are often even more predatory than the guys.
I just had a thought...