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Originally posted by GonePhishing
First, I am really sorry to hear that man. I can understand what it feels like. I wanted to take this time to tell you what I have gathering from similar experiences in that past.
1. Forget about her. I know this is damn near impossible, but forget it. Once she does something like that, you'll never be happy even if you do get back together.
2. You'll never trust her again. Even if you are together, you will turn into a paranoid android. You'll wonder where she is when she is not with you. You'll suspect she's meeting, talking to, or fucking another guy anytime you are seperate. You'll always be a little angry at her for doing this.
3. Don't be friends with her. You might as well pour acid on your nuts over hanging out with her. Being friends with someone you love who rejected you is like having to visit someone in a house you used to live in and got kicked out of.
4. There are people out there who won't do this to you. Hard to belive, but there are women that will be loyal and never do things like this to you. You'll be much more stable and happy when you get over this one and find a decent one for yourself.
Good luck. Deal with it how you choose. These are just my experiences from a past relationship. I say that nobody deserves to go through this kind of madness... Find a better woman who won't do shit like this.
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Very Good Advice
Definitely dont try to be friends, that was my mistake, you just get more pissed off in the long run.