The M Roadster has a much more aggresive front than the z3 so its definitely not girlie, especially if you get the hardtop coupe instead of the convertible. But its all about the way you drive. My friend recently got a z4 and that thing handles unbelievably well, much better than the current 3-series and the old recently replaced 5-series.
Get the car, fuck the critics, and drive it like you stole it.
