in reality there are several words that gay people use to refer to other gay people. gay, fag, queen, homo, queer, whatever...
and there are words for various niches: twink, bear, chub, etc...
however, if its for a general gay porn site, i wouldnt venture away from just saying 'gay', and be careful how you say it. dont isolate the surfer. example, dont say "good porn for gays" ... because its obvious youre talking down to gay people & putting them in a group that youre not in.
just my .02, but hey, what do i know?
