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Chances are she will always argue with you about petty things until she trusts you enough that she doesn't feel the need to. Women like a lot of attention and she wants to be sure you are giving it to her.
She's probably starting many of the arguments to test you and see what you do. In her mind, if you walk away or dump her, you don't love her but if you stick around and battle it out with her, then you really do love her. Twisted but true.
She's insecure and that's normal in a lot of women, especially young ones. I don't know how old she is, but it sounds like she is young.
It doesn't sound like the relationship is just sexual, because you said you miss her when you aren't with her and that means your emotions/feelings are there as well.
Obviously you care about her to even bring this up... so you need to communicate with her. If it's making you unhappy now, it will make you unhappy in the future. You'll have a pattern of make up/break up for years... then eventually you'll get sick of it and end it for good. Possibly throwing away the right one, because you guys didn't do the right thing for each other. If you love her and you know she loves you, nip it in the bud now. Make her trust you, don't give her reasons not to... but also tell her how it makes you feel. She will justify her arguments, because to her, she's fighting for a cause, but probably not the right one. Find out what's going on in her head.... compromise but make sure she understands its heading for disaster if she doesn't make an effort to lighten up. I don't know what she starts arguments over, but chances are she's starting them over something much bigger than the trivial things you think it is.
If you love her and want to make it work... talk to her, honestly and don't hold anything back. Many guys make the mistake of not wanting to talk about things and that's how emotions build up and eventually explode. If you aren't happy and she isn't willing to make you happy, end it now before it goes on for a long time... which would be even worse if it ended later than sooner. If both of you want to be with each other, do what it takes to make each other happy. It's not healthy the way it is, but it can be if you communicate with honesty.
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