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Originally posted by LadyMischief
Alright, this article was written with Multiple Male Orgasms in mind, however the same technique is used in order to increase stamina and help to control premature ejaculation. I suspect in this case the nervousness and lack of confidence are also highly contributing factors... As for the rest of you, enjoy.
It is truly possible for a man to have multiple orgasms without ejaculation, and I know this to be a fact, because my mate has done it. It?s something that any man can do with time, lots of practice, and the right attitude. There?s several different techniques of achieving multiple male orgasms, and many are very in depth, so I?m not going to cover them here. Tantric techniques are widely viewed as the best way, but you?ll have to do some of your own research on the web and elsewhere if you want to follow up these methods. Try typing ?sex techniques, multiple male orgasm? into a search engine, I came up with a ton of results. For myself, and my mate, we decided to try a different approach to this matter. It?s a little more based on physical control rather than completely mental, but in essence, the same goal is achieved. A man can either do it on his own, with a partner?s help, or a combination of the two.
First, you must locate your pubococcegeal muscles. This is a very simple exercise. When you are urinating, try to stop the flow of urine. The muscle that controls that flow is your pubococcegeal muscle, otherwise known as the pc muscle. By clenching and squeezing and then releasing this muscle, just like any other muscle workout, over time it will strengthen the control you have over it. This exercise is called a keigel, and it?s also very effective for women as well. Keep trying at it. Really it?s just like any other workout. It?s probably best to start with say 10 reps of 5 squeezes a day, but my partner and I both do it all day long. It?s one of those exercises you can do anywhere?sitting at the office, on the computer, driving in your car, wherever. Keep working with it, and it will help you to control ejaculation as well. Experiment with this control while masturbating. If it doesn?t work, just keep trying, and eventually you should be able to control your ejaculation quite well.
To have a partner help, have them stroke you almost to orgasm, and make sure to let them know to stop JUST as you feel like you're about to ejaculate. As you reach this point, you squeeze your pc muscle, and also, have your partner gently pinch the head of your penis, not enough to hurt, but to sort of squeeze off the penis, with the thumb on the ridge between the head and the shaft. Hold for about 5 seconds, or as long as it takes to control the urge to ejaculate, and start the process over again. This is also a very good technique for people who have problems with premature ejaculation, as it teaches them to have control over when they ejaculate, and can help them to overcome the problem. Eventually, you can work yourself up to the point where you can have the orgasm without the ejaculation, and it can happen again and again, with you cumming ONLY when you?re ready. Believe me, it?s a very fulfilling skill, for BOTH partners involved.
No matter what happens, don?t get down on yourself, keep a positive attitude, and even if you never have the multiple o, you will still benefit from the control you can learn in order to help please both your partner, and yourself, more often, and for longer periods of time. Have fun, and do please enjoy!
It may seem involved, but the payoff in the end is WELL worth the effort you put into it if you really try hard. Don't let yourself get discouraged! Good luck.
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