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Originally posted by Tala
[B]If you can't agree on religion, then will it bother her if you don't go to church or will it bother you if she doesn't go? You will have to agree on this, even if it means disagreeing. (Think about that one for a minute)
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And if you happen to have children at some point, how will they be raised? If you're a devout athiest and the other is a strict Catholic, there's gonna be a fight.
When we got engaged, a friend bought me "The Hard Questions". It was fun to go through it and talk about some of the things we'd just never talked about before. We'd been together for 8 years and I thought we'd talked about everything, but I learned a few things about him and he learned some about me.
I can't believe that people get married with all those discussions about china patterns and what color flowers are we getting, but none about religion, money, house and home. How can people be surprised when the person they married wants/doesn't want kids right away or ever?