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It's sad that so many women use their children as tools to punish their husbands or ex husbands. While I am all for fathers that want to be a part of their children's life and do pay child support, I think it's wrong for the mother's to drain every cent out of them. In a lot of cases, the mother's end up using the money for themselves and not for the kids.
Take for example my aunt... she married a guy at least 15 years older than her. He was married for 25 years before that, never had kids. My aunt knew he didn't want to have kids... but she kept pushing him and eventually had a baby. Then another one. She was only interested in securing her future for the next 18-20 years by using the kids as meal tickets, because they did get divorced and she ended up with the house and most of everything, even though HE had custody of the kids. At court once, she had a choice between the house or give up the kids... guess what she chose?
I'd never want to make someone suffer just because I am bitter and selfish and I'd never want my kids to see that I am making their father suffer. There's nothing worse for a child to experience than thinking one parent hates the other. I don't believe in divorce, but if I ever got married and it came to an end, I wouldn't want anything more than I brought into it initially and what I contributed to it, during it. My fair share, not more than I contributed financially.
I'm not sure why some women end up so hateful to the entire male population. As a female, I know men can be real assholes, but I don't believe in revenge when children are involved. If I had kids, my first priority would be making them happy and safe... my own wants/needs would come last.
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