Love can turn into the worst addiction. It feels so good when you're in it and hurts so bad when you are without it. I'm starting to believe love is just chemicals in our minds... but I honestly believe we have a soul and our brain just transmit love and emotion to us, because humans only know what they can see, hear and touch... humans can't comprehend or believe in something they have no physical evidence of.
Getting back to the original question... the only way for someone to fall in love with you, is to be who you are. I know that's cliche, but it doesn't matter what you look like... if your personality is a fraud. The best way for people to know you and fall in love, is to show them your best qualities and point out your flaws, so they know upfront and hopefully love the good with the bad.
Too many people confuse love and lust. So many get an adrenaline rush by flirting and sex, that they take the feelings for granted and become immune to true love. They feel things so often, associated with love, that they are no longer capable of knowing what lasting love feels like... at that point, it's no longer special. It's like someone who drinks beer everyday Vs. someone who only gets wasted on New Year's eve. Sometimes people can ruin the joy real love gives you, by abusing it and throwing it around like it's just a word.
I dunno... it's 4:39AM and I am rambling now LMAO
