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Old 11-26-2003, 11:12 PM  
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How do you get someone to fall in love with you?

the "ways to say I love you" thread got me thinking.....

emotion is something that can DEFINATLY be played with. Think about how many times in your life you get a crush on this person or that person.

Do you buy into the idea that it's fate or are you a scientific thinker and look for concrete reasons as to why you become fixcated on this person or that person and not another.


Myself, I admit, I'm very sueptable to crushes. I love to fixiate on people and indulge fanticies therein. I have several ongoing crushes right now. But I think it's somehow based in reality and a show on tv the other day really opened my eyes.

This program talked about training women to get a man to marry them. It went on about concepts like listening to someone else to get them to like you - and I admit - I learnt as life insurane salesman I made 10X more money when people spoke more than I did in sales interviews. I made it a POINT to shut the fuck up and ensure that the other person spoke 70% of the time. more wasn't good - you couldn't lead them - and less meant they weren't into it. 70% was a rule. I only wanted to speak 30% of the time. - so anyway - taking this to crushes - that program on tv didn't exactly say this in the same way but had a concept VERY close to this. - it expanded on it by making sure that a woman told her perspetive man that she felt he was unique, and to find out about what he considers his strong points and reassure him about them - bla bla bla - anyway - I started to realize that the people who I get STRONG crushes on, basically do JUST that.

they speak about 30% of the time - trying to guide a conversation but not controll it and they make you feel like you are unique when you talk to them.

it's absolutly amazing how muh people want to talk about themselves - and even more so to an interested person.

Everyone's just craving attention at heart.

babes - take note - I made a LOT of money in sales with this tehinque and believe me it REALLY REALLY works if you want a guy to fall in love with you.


mind you - if all you're looking for is a night of passion - showing some leg and a couple of well placed winks is all that's required.
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