IMO you should tell her on the 1st date. If it was me and you told me this ...wait what do you do exactly? lol
Either way you should ALWAYS be upfront about things especailly on this topic. Don't try and go around it, it'll only make it work. If she runs then she's not the one for you. Even if you just want her for sex. If she gets a little upset but stays there then you've prolly got a winner
