I have to agree that you could just go to a strip club anyday, so no need for it to be that. I have been to all of your parties and enjoyed them all. I actually really liked your last one in Florida for 2 main reasons:
1. it was coolder in there, where as the hotel rooms get very very hot, and you could just step outside easier on the Florida party.
2. Also there was a lot of variety you could do many different things.
This is going to sound stupid, but either get an extremely large room like in Florida and chop it up so that one is a noisy dance type of open floor, another room or two is photo shoots, and then maybe another room is for mingling and networking less noisy. I think you kind of have this idea set up with the hotel room, just that that is too small and hot in there, so if you maybe have 3 separate rooms even that would work.
Either way I know it will good as usual
