The thrill of cybersex depends on the individual and what tools are at hand (pun intended). If both parties have a webcam and a hands-free headset (microphone & headphones), it can be exciting for both persons. Some people get off on just making the other person reach a climax even if they did not climax themselves.
A few webcam girls that I know really enjoy it when a viewer takes the time to actually make them climax. Too many webcam viewers are just curiosity-seekers or just want to climax to a live-person asap due to a number of reasons (wife is the other room, stress relief, etc.).
The best type of cybersex, in my opinion, is where fantasy and roleplay is involved. One or both of the participants may be curious about bondage but may never do it in real life. They may play roles from their favorite television show. Of course, creativity is always a healthy thing
