EB you are as busy as a beaver.
You might just go look at AEBN site and then have someone else duplicate you a similar one...probaly end up with something better off in the long run after you teek it anyways...The russain guy's at elance about 2 years ago...told me they could build a ifriends site for around 1500$ with billing included...should be cheaper for what you are wanting done.
Might even check with ifriends...they have a video playback section that I heard does pretty good. I dont know if they would let you or not....maybe ?
Here is what adult friend finder up sells in there members area...looks good
Hot Movies
Maybe some of this will help
Deeprub