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I'll probably get flamed for going against the flow, but I'd suggest giving her some support. Since this is very likely a problem of alcoholism, not just isolated bad judgement, I'd suggest that you try getting involved with her treatment. If she's reluctant to go to an AA meeting or counseling or other program, for example, offer to go with her...even push to go with her, whether she's reluctant or not. You'll learn more about the problem yourself, which can aid you in understanding and trying to help her. Group meetings have people there who are clean, and those who are still struggling, along with loved ones sometimes there for support...it's a sympathetic crowd. Her life is going to be shitty enough with the courts and revoked driving and jail (if you're sure that's mandatory on a 2nd offense...it isn't everywhere) and possible loss of employment or school standing. She could use some support in trying to overcome the root problem. I'm not saying coddle her and tell her it was no big deal, it was and is a big deal, but turning a cold shoulder is likely to make matters even worse. You have an opportunity to try and help her. She's family, and while it is irritating someone would do that, for her sake I hope you get over the anger and try to help her out.
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