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Originally posted by iroc409
one of my very close friends had a situation like that. the bitch was using all the money on drugs and bullshit. she wasn't working. the kids didn't even have clean fucking clothes, and barely any food. and they were raping him to support her drug habit.
she finally crossed the line 1 too many times i guess (they let her get away with ANYTHING, including several neglect charges). he finally got his kids.
i was VERY pleased about that.
good news man 
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Yep.. I'm not one of those foolish women who always sides with the woman. I think every situation needs to have decisions made based on the circumstances at the time. Sure, some people say the kids should be with the mother, but some women are just really fuckign shitty mothers, just like some guys are shitty fathers. It doesn't favor one sex or another. Children need, love, patience, attention, nurturing, encouragement, and a lot of care. I feel the kids belong wherever they are getting what they need. They should always be the primary concern, but in so many nasty breakups and seperations they get used as pawns and people stop thinking about what's best for them. It's sad.