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Originally posted by LadyMischief
That's TOTALLY WRONG! Honesty is the best policy.. A woman will have a LOT less respect for you if you tell her some fluff story at first and then the truth later. How is that establishing a precident for honesty in a relationship? Either she should accept what you do right off the bat, or it's time to move on.
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Well, you seem a good person
But you must agree that some ppl are f.e very religious.
For them you working in porn is not something they desire.
At the beginning, the other person doesn't know you, your feelings, personality, habits etc... She / he isn't in love with you yet.
If you tell her / him at the beginning that you work in porn, that person may decide that she / he doesn't want to know you or start a relationship.
If after a few weeks she sees that you are a wonderful person and is in love with you, you can explain hat you're not exacltly making mainstream web design. At that point she will understand and tolerate it, because she loves you.
Perhaps, I could be more cpecific but I don't have time to make a longet thread now, but I hope you do see my point.