I have been exactly where you are now. THE ONLY THING THAT YOU CAN DO IS TO THROW HER OUT......NO TALK.......NO EXCUSES.....NO CONTACT......NO BEATING ANYBODY UP.
If there is any chance at all for this to be fixed, she has to respect you and see that if this happens you just shut her down period, and she has to do ALL the work in order to come back. (and I mean you have to make her WORK for it!). No easy out, no forgive her the next weekend crap.
There are only two things that can happen. Either she will never come back, in which case a clean break is the best thing for you, of if she does, she HAS to respect that you reacted by just shutting her out.....totally, and instantly.
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