Hate to tell you, but I highly doubt that she told him she's married. He isn't the one in need of a lesson. If you want to keep your marriage in tact, then SHE is going to have to rebuild the trust that she threw away. Personally, though, (and remember, I'm a woman), I'd pack her a couple of suitcases and change the locks on the doors. If she wants to talk to you, then she can do it through your attorney.
