I've heard of that happening. My first ex-wife was different after we got married, and not as enthusiastic. My 2nd was the opposite and way more enthusiastic after getting married.
For you guys that aren't married yet, you do have to be careful because some women's sexual desires do change once they know they have you locked in.
It also is a lot of work to keep the spontanaity alive when you've been having sex with the same person for 10 years or more on top of the fact that you start to get older and your desires sometimes slow down. You really have to get creative and adventurous or one or both partners will start having affairs.
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