Well if just you two can figure it out... I don't care much about all this.
It doesn't mean a site is a cheater or should be considered pathetic just because it's not known to everyone. A program can be a success if even smaller sites share their traffic with whatever program it might be, in my opinon.
2 years ago while I was still posting galleries I actually got much better traffic from the smaller sites.
But all this is pretty entertaining
Mike