Originally Posted by TheLegacy

At 65 I hope that you'll listen to my advice -- love is an illusion. If love truly exists when marrying then why do half the marriages end in divorce. This early on in the game she's testing which one you love more - her or OF. Yet at this point in your life your main concern should not be falling in love and family butt to build and secure a strong nest egg for the future so you can retire early and do not worry about money (NOTE pretty much the main reason why people get divorced)

Finally - after 3 marriages - it's clear - you can find "the one" several times in your life. That's hollywood - Now if you're really wanting to stick with this girl see if there is a compromise in that - what if you did OF but solo?? not with any other partners? You may loose a percentage of sales but not fully. Do nude glamour shots or masturbation themed OF.

Point is that a couple should compromise and try to understand why they do what they do. You're not perfect - and neither is she. Best you can hope for is she accepts you for who you are - no changes. Then go from there because if she can't do that - then sorry to say - she's NOT the one - just the one for now.