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Originally posted by DonovanPhillips
I disagree with you. I have a brother that has a very bad financial outlook, was way too immature to have a kid, lives in the slums, is surrounded by drugs, and is too lazy to get off his ass and look for a job.
But he won't let his little girl out of his sight. And he'd kill to protect her.
Bad, or sad, situations do not justify anything, especially when it comes to kids.
But I will leave Amp alone. I'm done. Off to bed.
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I'm not saying that there arent people that have faced similar or even worse situations and succeeded, but I am saying that passing judgement without encoutering that situation yourself is a bit of an ass thing to do. I certainly can't cast any stones here because lord knows what I would do in a situation where a person I no longer wanted to have a relationship with was having a child with no consent from me.
I could lie to you and myself and say that I would without a doubt take care of the child, but I like to be honest and live in the real world, and I know that it would be a difficult decision and I dont know for a certainity that I would take care of the child. That's not to say Im a bad guy or immoral, but my point is that in situations like these people dont have a right to pass judgement unless they went through a similar experience.
It's like war, sure a person can talk shit and say he wants to fight and serve his country, but it happens often enough that when push comes to shove a few of those guys are no where to be found. Same situation.