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Originally Posted by LaceyW
These discussions are always enlightening.
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I am fascinated by these types of discussions as well. Due to technology, we live in a time where everything is accelerating at such high frequency, which leaves much of society in a state of confusion. Ideals which were considered common sense for centuries are now being challenged by angry feminists and weak men.
We have biological men claiming to be women and vise-versa. I'm honestly terrified to raise children in this generation. We have drag queens trying to groom children, within the public school system.
We have academia and capitalism convincing women they should be behaving and competing with men, which is clearly not the answer. Women, men and children are suffering more than ever as a result.
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Originally Posted by LaceyW
First of all, imo, Paulina P. is probably not really invisible to all men. She is still sexy as hell and anyone in his right mind over 30 knows it. She just isn't selling "hot" as she did in her heyday. If you are used to being a wall poster in every teen-aged male bedroom on the planet, your standards of what constitutes "invisible" are probably sort of skewed anyway.
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Paulina P. is still a beautiful woman, for her age. When she says she is invisible, she means to the men that she is attracted to.
I'm sure she has no shortage of young men willing to pump and dump her, but that's not what she really wants. She wants to be a wife and be a man's one and only Queen.
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Originally Posted by LaceyW
Moving on, yeah, guys definitely "get better" in their 40s and beyond because they usually bring some flair, experience, success, and--yes--money into the equation. Sex is one part of a complete package (no pun intended).
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You're precisely correct. The qualities which make men attractive to women take much time to develop.
- The ability to develop marketable skills, earn a good wage or build a successful business takes time, often decades.
- The ability for a man to stand up for himself in a respectful manner without being treated like a doormat is a skill which if undeveloped can land him dead or in prison.
- Cultivating a strong, powerful body and the ability to physically fight to protect himself and those he cares for or weaker than himself takes years of consistent work.
Women are given their gifts early in life. Women are generally desired for their youth, beauty and fertility. These are attributes are bestowed to a female at birth, and not qualities they must strive to earn in the way a man does.
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Originally Posted by LaceyW
But speaking strictly as a middle-aged straight woman, if the priority remains a good shagging, then nothing surpasses a fit guy in his early 20s.
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Personally, I got much better at sex in my early 30's, as I was a late bloomer physically.
I could maintain harder erections in my late 30s than I could in my early 20s mainly due to more confidence in my more well-developed physique which took time to achieve.