I just broke up with my fiancee. Or I should say she broke up with me.
We started dating after meeting on the first day of work at our first job out of university. For 5 years we struggled to pay of bills, student loans and better our lives. The minute we had some extra cash because of my adult business she starts getting ideas about going back to live in her home country Trinidad (where she grew up until she was 17). To make a long story short, after 10 years of living in Toronto she has moved back and left me high and dry.
Lessons I have learned:
1. Don't trust a girl that grew up in another country with a very different culture.
2. Don't let a woman know how much money you are making/saving. Make sure all living expenses are evenly shared.
3. When you start getting bad signs in a relationship address that shit RIGHT AWAY or else they just grow into bigger problems and you'll end up wasting more time on a doomed relationship that you have to.
Anyone else have stories of breaking off an engagement or ending a long-term relationship?