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When I lived in Boston, I went because friends went and were part of it. I saw sexy men nearly undressed, shaking their groove things at me. It was fun, over-the-top outrageousness and hilarity. Most gay people aren’t flaming or demonstrative and are your neighbors, doctor, dentist and boss. I had lesbians coming over and trying to talk, kiss and more. I just laughed, said “thanks but I only like real dick” and gave them a quick hug. It was a humorous and acceptable way of saying no. I wasn’t insulted but was flattered. I told one drag queen that blue eye shadow was so 70’s and he seriously asked for advice on color.
At first, I was confused since straight people didn’t have parades. Then I realized they’re proud to be gay. They aren’t ashamed to be different and don’t need to hide. They want to show strength in numbers.
My bff of twenty years is gay. He avoids the parades because he has no need to advertise his sexuality. Gay bashing shows him it’s better to keep it private.
I have mixed feelings about the parades. I support them fully but get angry that they’re inviting hatred and violence. That’s wrong that they can’t be open but until society changes, you need to conform.
Anything different from the “norm” is not accepted. They just want acceptance and fair treatment.
People hate pornographers because they feel we steal credit cards, cause family divorces, promote child porn and bestiality, fuck anything that moves (or doesn’t), don’t follow religion, drink and do drugs and many other fallacies. Will our industry ever be accepted?
One bad apple spoils the whole bunch. One gay guy molests boys, people think all do. But if a straight guy molests girls, everyone doesn’t think all do. One crossdresser likes boys, people think they all do. 85% of crossdressers are straight according to statistics.
Everyone thinks they don’t stereotype people. But all of us do, to a point. Thinking your doctor or lawyer is rich, thinking a religious person is moral, thinking a woman with big breasts is loose, etc. It’s just human nature.
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Anti-Semites have Small Penis Syndrome. The only known treatment is electroshock therapy combined with cerebellum removal. Fortunately, it’s a tiny procedure.
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