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Originally Posted by mineistaken
"ex girlfriend".
Less tears than normally from me if true.
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girl darwin award winner
But it looks like a this
The failure to address the abuse was attributed to a combination of factors revolving around race, class and gender?contemptuous and sexist attitudes toward the mostly working-class victims; fear that the perpetrators' ethnicity would trigger allegations of racism and damage community relations; the Labour council's reluctance to challenge a Labour-voting ethnic minority; lack of a child-centred focus; a desire to protect the town's reputation; and lack of training and resources.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rother...tation_scandal
Before long, he had started alienating Woodhouse from her family ? for example, by saying her father only disapproved because he was racist ? and she was skipping school to be with him. A month in, he started having sex with Woodhouse at his family house, in hotels, at friends? flats. He would even climb in through her bedroom window at home. She says she thought she was consenting at the time, even though a 14-year-old can?t consent, but she adds ?there were things that happened and I didn?t like it?. He raped her anally. ?I didn?t even know that was physically possible. If he ever did something and I didn?t like it, he would say: ?Everyone else does it.? So then I thought: ?I?m a bad girlfriend, everyone does it.? I had STIs and didn?t know what they were.?
Around the same time, the violence started. She says she experienced it on an almost daily basis. ?I kept going back. Afterwards he would apologise and say: ?It?s only because I love you, you make me do it.? He would take me back to earlier memories when everything was really nice. You do think it will stop, it will get better.? Once, during an argument, he drove towards the edge of a ridge that overlooks Rotherham. ?He was speeding towards it really fast. How he didn?t go off it, I don?t know. He said he was going to kill us both. He slammed the brakes on, and I was terrified. I got out and was sick, and then he dragged me to the edge and said he was going to throw me off. Then he put me in the back of the car and had sex with me.? She felt, she says, ?like a body on a slab?.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/...ouse-interview