tobedeleted

So I run an adult site and I'm doing all that I can to build up both organic and paid traffic. I search for my site in Bing and no results. I then check to make sure I'm indexed by doing the whole site:domain.com thing.

I'm indexed. So why no results when I type my domain name in directly?

Then I see the safety settings and think, oh ok, we'll that makes sense. I turn them off and my site pops up perfectly.

But just for good measure I enter xvideos.com with my moderate settings back on and boom, there they are. My site is not anywhere near as hardcore as xvideos, so WTF?

Anyone know how they pulled this off? Is it just traffic, like if you have tons of traffic then the search engines look the other way?

I mean I don't want to deceive anyone, so if my site is to hardcore for moderate settings then so be it. But it's no where near as hardcore as xvideos, so I'm totally confused.