Originally Posted by mikesouth

I have several good sources saying suicide but it isnt verified and truth is I wouldnt likely run it unless there was a good story behind it...good meaning that she did it for herself

By that I mean this

When I was hospitalized for my spinal cord tumor i was told that there was a 50% chance that the operation would leave me paralyzed from the waist down I had a long talk with my brother and my best friend that if that was the case I wanted the option to control my own destiny, that the choice should be mine...obviously my outcome was even better than anyone had thought it would be, I had 2 highly skilled neurosurgeons and my only lasting effect is drop foot in both feet...Im thrilled to say I can live with that

But the point is I would have nothing bad to say about someone who chose to leave on his/her own terms sometimes that may be the best and least selfish choice.