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Old 01-29-2016, 04:24 AM  
BlackCrayon
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Originally Posted by mikesouth View Post
If a guy is secure it isnt a problem its really that simple. Love has nothing to do with it, people into it do it for fun, because it makes them happy or its an adventure or even a business.

and anyone that thinks its synonymous with cuckolding is clueless. If both partners are on the same page and secure in their relationship and their sexuality its no different than shaking hands.

If you think that somehow makes them in less of a loving relationship...look in the mirror, the person looking back at you is the one with issues.
actually no, its never 'that simple'. 9 times out of 10 there is one person who is into it way more than the other. either the wife goes along with it because her husband wants to do it or he goes along with it because she wants to do it. its very rare that its 100% mutual and even if it starts out that way, often doesn't end up that way.
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