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Originally Posted by Paul Markham
Does it count if my wife joined in?
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nope. it's not cheating if there's no deceit involved. mixing it up is a whole other thing. sharing an encounter
with somebody or acting with full consent of one's partner is a completely different animal than acting unethically and concealing something from the person one claims to care about the most.
I've never cheated, never will. Never been cheated on either. If it went that way I'd respect him enough to divorce him first. I'd owe him that as a decent human being.
We have a responsibility to the partners who love us. violating that is unethical. OP, if you want to break out break out, just don't enjoy pleasure at anyone's expense.
Monogamy really isn't all that biologically natural, but point is if you enter into a relationship you both define the strictures. don't enter into an arrangement you can't fulfill, if you can't handle a situation predicated on monogamy either change your relationship or leave. anything else is completely unethical.