Getting traffic is what everyone wants. There are lots of ways to go about getting some.
You can submit your videos to link dumps like thesexdump and pin sites or upload some videos with your watermark to the tube sites.
You can try asking other webmasters to trade links with your site but that seems to be getting harder. You could also post your videos in other forums you can find.
I put together a little guide to help new webmasters get started. You can check it out here
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It should get you started with some ideas on how to get started generating traffic.