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Old 07-17-2003, 09:59 PM  
Tala
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Originally posted by DirkG
Well I will go as far as to say you can trust no woman. They are all evil. Sure they pretend to be nice, and act like the best thing that could happen in your whole life. But at the drop of a hat, its gloves off and dirty fighting. Its in their nature, the worst societies in human history have been ran by women causeing some of the bloodiest and cruel wars of all time.
A woman will keep track of everything that can possibly be used to her advantage in order to screw you. They do it to themselves, and they do it to men. Men may fight, but most will follow at least some rules of decency. To a woman, it doesnt matter how close you once were, now you are her worst enemy and every aspect of your life both professional and personal needs to be ruined. Never tell a woman anything that may be used in any way against you. One day it will be.
I thought I had met someone who was an exception to this rule. I let her know everything about me and everything of who I was. 11 years later she turned from princess to harpy over night. Bringing up 11 years of mistakes and actions on my part when spun by her made me out to be the devil himself. Sure I didnt do dishes very often, or clean the house everyday ( her list actually had at least 2 pages of things I had done wrong), but to hear her say it, I purposefully would make every dish in the house dirty by pouring thing from one pot to the other and then dump the contents onto a pile of cloths to make them dirty and then drag them behind my car for fun. To my benifit I must add that while I didnt do these two things often enough, she forgets that I cooked dinner 6 nights a week and breakfast and lunch 3 days, did all the car repairs every weekend, well I regress. I dont need to justify this to anyone as its not part of where I am going.
So to make things as bad as she can for me, she threatens to make it so I can only see my kids every other weekend. Knowing fully that in my line of work (I manage a restaraunt) I have to work every weekend late into the night. Effectively leaving me with seeing my kids while they were asleep. My lawyer told me that in all probability that would be what the judge would recommend since that is standard visitation by law in Oregon. It took months of negotiation and her finally understanding how much money she would have to spend on day car if she had the kids all week, as before we took opposite days off to keep day care down to 3 days a week. Now I get my kids 2 days a week, Monday and Tuesday while they are in school, and part of the concession I had to make was to give her 80% of the profit from the sale of our house along with everything inside it. She got married 2 months later and now my kids think this guy is their dad and keep calling me by my first name. I could bitch about this for days, but you see my point I hope. Women are like mushrooms, they should be kept in the dark and fed nothing but shit.
Now as far as women and their work proformance go, thats another story. I will go out of my way to hire women. Theymake superior managers compared to menand their attention to detail and work ethic is higher than most men, that has been proven in many studies.
I'm really sorry your ex is a bitch, but do NOT dump ALL women into the same category. That isn't fair and it isn't right, and if you truly believe it, then I'm sorry, but I can certainly see why the woman left you.
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