I feel ya BVF...I have custody of my 2 kids (since 98) ..and the chick pays me child support...She knows I had a few porn sites here and there ....but I have never ever told her the exact sites...the only sites she knows are my mainstream credit card/mortgage sites..
Never let your guard down with a female...especially if you have kids together...they love to spend the money that you make from porn, but they will use that shit against you in a custody battle.
The same bitch that loves you can turn on your ass my brotha.
