Originally Posted by kane

Same here. She hid from the process server for about 10 days when the papers were filed. My brother finally called her mom and asked her to call her up and tell her to accept the papers that it wasn't going away.

She has spiraled down in the last year or so. She is 41 and has pretty much abandoned her kids. She is dating a 22-year-old guy that she goes out clubbing with every weekend. She spends so much going out with him she can't pay her bills so she got evicted from one apartment and just moved out of another. Now she is basically couch surfing.

My worry is that several months down the road she is going to snap out of this and decide she wants to come after him for his pension, alimony etc.