Originally Posted by Tom_PM

Sometimes people think others are haters in the same way that a lot of mothers think their daughters hate their seemingly terrible boyfriends. Because the only time the girl talks about her man to her mom is when she's pissed off at him. Naturally Mom thinks he's dead evil to the core with no redeeming qualities.

Similarly, show me a video of a dumb cop and I'm probably not going to talk about the times when I had great police help or leniency I didn't expect or maybe didn't even deserve. More likely I'm going to just be one pissed off mother.