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Originally Posted by dyna mo
people who get dramatic about other people's smoking are being dramatic. You'll have a better chance of longterm success if you don't worry about other people's smoke.
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No I don't stress about it, I don't preach, give them nasty looks or even step away from them - I am quiet about it - but it's all I can do to be near it!! But I am not nasty with anyone about it. I don't drink either, but I don't freak on people that do that either - to each his own!!
I don't even see them as idiots, I was never an idiot just because I smoked - and I don't make that judgement - how can I when I did it for 30+ years myself and didn't want to be treated like that. I just can't stand the smell personally - even the thought of the smell - blah!!
I did, however, stop allowing smoking in my house, car and other areas of my own personal space, and that I am adamant about - but I don't get up and make damn scene and ask to be moved to another place on the planet simply because I quit! But as it pertains to my own space - and I am not a bitch - I just ask that they smoke outside or something - I am still trying to get the smell out of MY space now. lol