Did you look at the keychain she is holding? Look at my location under my user handle!
...coincidence?
She's here for a while doing postdoc work in Ames lab. I made her promise over a year ago that if she came back here she would hang out with me.
I've never been so patient with a girl. I took her out and started by saying good bye with a hug.
Fed her a nice dinner, held her hand and she grew alarmed that she didn't want to get attached to anyone because she was supposed to go back to Colombia. I kissed her goodbye later that night.
I kept at it, she resisted, she told me she made a promise to another Colombian man while she was in Spain to be with him, etc.
I started with more intense makeout sessions, heavy petting, than I started dry humping her, then dry humping her hard!
After one session I planted a kiss on her crotch and then I managed to get fellatio.
She freaked out about the whole thing, and I had sex with her the first time this past Friday after 2+ hours of talking in a coffee shop...
It scares her as I'm the only non-Colombian she's been with, unlike guys who will be with anyone, girls tend to only like being with their own race; we're both white for the most part however. We will see, culture and family may get the best of her but according to her I make her so happy.
It was a 6-8 week time frame but I was patient. I'm the 5th guy she's been with and she's older than me, my 22nd.