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Originally Posted by CDSmith
Wow, someone young and stupid did something wild and stupid 20 years ago. How are we not hauling her out to the cornfield and burning her at the stake?
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No one is hauling her out to the cornfield and burning her as if she were some evil witch. This is between him and her, no one else.
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Newsflash people -- some people actually change over the course of two decades.
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I agree 100%. That's why I prefaced my original post with how sweet of a girl she was and such a sweetheart. I'm sure she's changed in 20 years, and she's probably embarrassed by what happened 20 years ago. But that's not the point here. She could be Suzy Homemaker super mom, wonderful wife, great lover, etc, etc. But the point here is can HE get over it? I think she's a great person. But once again, can he move on? Can you find a way to not bring it up if they get into an argument? Can he not stay up at nights wondering about the details of what happened to the woman next to him 20 years ago? That's the ultimate question and it has nothing to do with her current character.