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Originally Posted by CDSmith
Wow, someone young and stupid did something wild and stupid 20 years ago. How are we not hauling her out to the cornfield and burning her at the stake?
Newsflash people -- some people actually change over the course of two decades.
Amelia G seems to be the sole voice of reason here, why am I not surprised.
Zero forgiveness for a girl in 20 years, what a boned up bunch of judgemental clownshoes we are.
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Very well said - what keeps going thru my mind is what if it was a guy that had done this or one of the 20 something guys that were involved here talking... would he be forgiven or would he be praised?
I am not saying to forgive or not to forgive, if you love someone, you love them for the good and the bad and we can't go back and change things we did as kids - what kind of nasty things did he do as a stupid kid? If you love someone - you just do - if you THINK you love someone then it's clear he'll never get over it - maybe he just loves the idea of being in love? I'd be asking that more than anything.
To me, if you can't get past bad decisions and so on, then it isn't real true love to begin with! Sure some things are worse than others, but if real true love is there, you take it and move on and love them.