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Originally Posted by Rob
It clearly isn't rape. If she were drunk or drugged and this happened, yes, definitely rape. From what I understood, she told some friends she was going to do it and had it all planned out. This wasn't the Duke Lacrosse team, and it wasn't rape. It was consensual sex with a lot of dudes.
It's not like she cheated on her fucking Calculus exam! He hasn't dumped her yet and I'm sorry, she's not the victim here. If anything, she should have told him when they first met over 2 years ago and let him decide from that point on whether he could live with it or not. Not wait until it's posted on a social network and then try to sweep it under the rug. If anything, HE'S the victim here.
Because it's not like tree sap or bug guts. You can't just wash it off your car and forget about it. Shit like this haunts people. Some people don't even like hearing about their lover's past sexual experiences, even with one dude. Not 25.
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I'd be a lot more turned off by someone having cheated on an exam. That speaks to character.
Your story sounds highly suspect. Many of the details do not sound right together. And there are so many details, including what you imagine, that it sounds lil like you are having sexual fantasies, whether the event more or less happened or not.
YOU compared the episode with the movie The Accused, which is about a horrible gang rape, not something a teenager planned out for sexual experimentation.