Originally Posted by Tam

For me, nothing - everything I have done or had happen to me has put me where I am today - the bad things I learned a great deal from and made me stronger - the good things helped to put me where I am as well as being learning experiences as well.

My life hasn't been a bed or roses, in fact mostly the thorns from the bed of roses, but at the end of the day, I have a great family, very good friends, an awesome job and almost everything I want and everything I need - so all of it helped me get where I am - not rich by NO stretch - but happy!

Sure there are things I'd do differently if I had it to do over, but every single thing I learned from and managed to pull at least one good thing from, so I am ok with the mistakes as well - but to regret one thing would mean I regretted my life and I certainly do not! Each thing helped me gain at least something good in my life!