Size Matters
Everything about the man I'm dating is perfect?except his microscopic member.
I am a 30-year-old woman who has been dating a lovely man for three months. He?s smart, funny, cute, and kind. I?ve felt so lucky to have found him. Here?s the problem: We recently became intimate for the first time, and he is, unfortunately, very poorly endowed?so small that I did some Google searching and think he might have a micropenis. I believe that sex is crucial to a relationship, and the thought of having a (potentially lifelong) relationship without an active sex life scares me. When you can?t feel anything during the act, that?s a problem. I know that there are other options in the bedroom, but I get pleasure by doing it the old-fashioned way. I feel awful about this?it?s obviously something that he can?t help, and it slays me that the universe would be so unjust to such a wonderful person. I?m conflicted. I see a potential future with him in every other way, but how do I deal with this? Do women who marry very poorly endowed men end up regretting it? If I let him go, what should I tell him that won?t absolutely crush him?