"When we have drunk sex, my boyfriend always wants to lick my asshole while going down on me. It always grosses me out so I stop him, just cause i dont think its sanitary. It feels good though, and i wouldnt mind him doing it cause I do like it. Im just worried about the cleanliness of it.
is there anything I can do to clean up a little bit back there? he really only initiates it when hes drunk, so is there anything I can do before I go out, when I shower, anything like that?
If he licks my anus and then licks my vagina will that spread anything over there?
I dont have any desire to have anal sex so im not concerned with that, just wanna clean up a little bit so i can relax and stop worrying about the hygiene of it."

