Congrats on getting your kids back.
But PLEASE don't ever let your children hear you calling their mother names like bitch, ho, slut, hahahaha, etc. And for goodness sake, please don't try to keep her from seeing them. Kids need to see BOTH of their parents and they don't need to hear their parents belittled by each other. I don't know if you speak to her or about her this way in front of the kids, I would think that since you obviously seem to care for them very much you don't, but I just felt the need to say that.
As for this comment: "The MAIN reason is that I don't want to pay child support when I'm the one raising the kids anyway."
You don't know how many fathers I've heard say things like this. That's just wrong. Parenting is a two way street. Are you sure she's really doing the horrible job with them that you say she is or is it just anger at her that's clouding your judgement? I just want you to think about it to be sure you're doing the right thing for the kids. If that's being with you or being with her or whatever, then do what needs to be done.
Either way, it's obvious that you do love your kids and I at least have to applaud you for taking the time to be a part of their lives.
