Copy - paste and make a page with exactly what you wrote here and tell him to visit it,
I think what you wrote are things that are bugging you about him in a nutshell - no pun concerning him intended -
I think if he reads it he will say to you whats up then tell him the rest, one thing don't call at 3am in the morning and let that g'dam phone ring 70 times,
you did the right thing by calling him giving him a heads up, he had no consideration by not listening to your message.
Best of luck with the insomnia it can be a bitch, the doc may have to spike your prescription or prescribe something that keeps the mind from tossing while you sleep, or as Asia posted consider medical marijuana.
