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Originally Posted by signupdamnit
Maybe. But if I ran around the street pointing my finger at people I don't know and started insulting and lecturing them on their lives based on what my immediate perceptions of them were then I bet I'd lose my teeth and rightly so. Anyway enough about this guy.
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You'd lose your teeth because you are a sniveling pussy. But that's a whole other discussion that is of your general loserdom and not necessarily specific to the behavior I am talking about...
And I do know you. You are VERY consistent in your behavior. The pattern never changes. Your narrative never changes. You have nothing but problems and those problems are NEVER you. You are the one who gets sidetracked and bogged down in the "hows" and the "why's" of how you failed and "who did it to you" because to you, to maintain the facade that you've pulled over your own eyes, you need those irrelevant details to help you avoid accepting personal responsibility for the outcomes in your life.
If you were a sports coach, you'd be fired.
If you were a CEO, you'd be dismissed.
If you were a motivational speaker, you'd get laughed out of the room.
If you were a personal trainer, you'd have no clients.
.... etc etc etc.
And why? Because there are results and everything else. Those that can... and those that can't.
Those that understand that it requires a great deal of hard work, determination, will to succeed and strength of character to make it all happen. And there are those that just view the world is being unfair because its not happening to them.
Devoting every waking moment to convincing others not only that you can't but that others can't speaks volumes of how you see the world and you don't need Sigmund Freud to understand that the biggest obstacle to your success is how you see the world around you.
For some, losing just isn't an option, for others, its a way of life.
But it is a choice.